You are worth loving

Don’t come close… I’m covered in thorns, she said. I ignored and tried to hug her and found my self bleeding, trying to put my arms around her. Don’t! she said. And I struggled to wrap my arms around her. Each spine of thorn piercing through me, breaking my bones and bursting out of my … Continue reading You are worth loving

Goodnight

Was it worth it? I ask myself as I stand on a cliff, watching the waters, listening to the waves whispering my name, telling me about about peace in an end. I search deeply for a reason to stay. Looking to the sky for a sign for a better day. Having flashbacks of battles fought, … Continue reading Goodnight

20 Things To Start Doing In Your Relationship

When it comes to relationships, there is and will always be room for improvement. We have to keep learning and doing all in our power to make our relationships, promises and vows work. Remember it's a two-way street and it also begins with you. So here are 20 things you have to start doing in … Continue reading 20 Things To Start Doing In Your Relationship

7 Books You Need To Read If You Want A Happier Relationship

It's no secret that there's no ultimate manual for having a healthy relationship because, in that aspect of human life, there will always be a level of uncertainty on how to tackle (alone or with your lover) whatever problems are thrown at you. With all that uncertainty, coupled with the possibility of finding new things … Continue reading 7 Books You Need To Read If You Want A Happier Relationship

10 Things You Should Never Do On A First Date

I’m sure you’re very familiar with the saying, “You never get a second chance to make a first impression.” This couldn’t be truer when it comes to first dates. And though the excitement, anxiety and emotional imbalance can cause changes in your personality – which may seem off to your date, – there are some … Continue reading 10 Things You Should Never Do On A First Date

PABLO AYODEJI IS MY GUY!… The Art of Duplication

Hey guys!! It’s been a while I know and I am deeply sorry once again for just disappearing like I did. No excuses though but trust me when I say something big is cooking!! And I am super excited about even the thought of it! So many things have happened since I last dropped post. … Continue reading PABLO AYODEJI IS MY GUY!… The Art of Duplication

Healthy Relationships

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Heathly relationships are probably one of the most important things you need in life. A healthy relationship is simply having a friend who accepts you, loves you for who you are, and along the way encourages you in every aspect of your life.

“Growing up, I never really had a friend who I could be open and honest with. Through Celebration, I was able to find friends who encourages me through everything I do. Having a healthy relationship has made it easier to walk through this journey called life knowing that I have people who I can always depend on no matter what. My mom helps me with my emotional feelings about school, sports, and spiritually. If I didn’t have a healthy relationship with her, then things could’ve got real twisted. My dad helps me with organization, responsibility, and confidence. I believe that it is also very important to have…

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On Beginning First Relationships

Escape boredom

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I read Textbook, by Amy Krouse, and really liked this page, resulting in this badly taken photo.

But I’m not falling in love…not really. More like falling in like I guess, or maybe that’s what I deeply hope for. Because falling in love is something more. It implies that if the time comes to escape it, it becomes that much more difficult without damaging or losing a part of yourself. At least, that’s what I imagine.

Way back before, back when I was my own person and not in any sort of relationship, I saw my friends and my parents suffer through their own relationships. Sure, there were happy times, but I also saw the bloody aftermath in almost all those relationships. As a result, being the pretentious cocky person I am, I expected that I would never make any of those mistakes. And more importantly, I expected that…

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Frozen Heart

There were tales that said her heart was taken And the irony and reality was that it left her cold instead of warm Freezing every approach from suitors Building ice castles to prevent the ones Making herself separate from the world of love And like a knight I journeyed to her castle Fought mythical creatures … Continue reading Frozen Heart

Poem: What’s is and what was, wasn’t

Peace The beginning of a lifetime of joy Bounded by vows of I do Waking up each day to something new Enjoying every moment Making it last for great memories Staring deeply Knowing that what is and what has been, will always be I find myself being consumed by every hug And every stroke of … Continue reading Poem: What’s is and what was, wasn’t

BUSY DOING WHAT?

Hey guys, so today I am just going to follow in the footsteps of my very good friend George who is also an author on this blog lol. it's been a very hectic last few days for me and it also promises to be even more towards the end of the year. I am sure … Continue reading BUSY DOING WHAT?

Poem: Where are you?

  Where are you? Tell me you hear me Show me your location And let's fast forward to that beautiful occasion Relieving destiny of her duty Merging as one As we obstruct the balance of molecules in the universe Taking our ordained position in this world Listening to only our words Losing touch with everything … Continue reading Poem: Where are you?

Girl on Fire

She’s a star you see Glittery splendour that lights up my universe Her eyes you see, Piercing beams that see through me Ultraviolet gaze that breaks through my ozone walls The expressions of her love travel many miles To give warmth to my cold dark world A reminder that she hasn’t forgotten me A token … Continue reading Girl on Fire

Enjoying your relationship as a man; The little things.

Take some minutes to think about your girl. She is a blessing to you in many ways and can even be more if you take the time and patience to know her and fall in love with everything that has to do with her. This is more than calling her every day, buying gifts or … Continue reading Enjoying your relationship as a man; The little things.